Act naturally, pretty ugly, only choice, random order, short wait and sweet agony are all oxymorons. They all are figures of speech which contradict each other. Just like oxymorons, we all have issues in our lives which have contradictory components. This includes that love/hate relationship you are in with someone else or yourself. Other contradictions you may have are wanting to overcome addictions such as cigarettes or overeating but not having the willpower. Even in just trying to have a positive mind set, but that little voice in your head just won’t let you. All of these issues stem from past experiences which are stored in your subconscious mind.
It could have been from experiences in grade school. Think about it, we could be mean when we were young. Those inner thoughts could also come from a parent, teacher or coach who did not have the proper tools to handle specific issues in our lives. Whether it was someone being mean or not having the proper tools all it took is someone telling you, or making you feel that, you were not worth anything at a vulnerable moment which you took to heart. So believe me when I say that your subconscious mind is full of lies and restrictions.
The most effective way to deal with the resolving these lies and restrictions is to open up direct communication with your subconscious mind. Hypnotherapy can readdress these thoughts and get you to believe the truth about yourself – you are a beautiful person who deserves the best out of life.